Wednesday, July 13, 2011

How To Successfully Vacation In Fiji


There are a lot of reasons why you want to vacation in Fiji, and there are not all that many reasons to convince you to stay away from Fiji. After all, Fiji is one of the most beautiful places in the world, and the weather and the quiet beaches are enough to make anyone feel like they have escaped to paradise. You will need to first make sure you make the right decisions that will put you in the best position to enjoy your vacation to the fullest. Even before you start planning the vacation itself, some of these decisions are detailed below and they will help you get started on the right foot on your way to a Fiji vacation. 

Big or small island: There are a lot of different islands that are part of Fiji, and some of these islands are small while some of them are large; the best way to decide which is right for you is to realize that many of the large islands have more of a “resort” feel, with plenty of people and constant activities, while the small islands often hold as few as ten or twelve couples, and are much quieter and simpler. 


All-inclusive or pay as you go: All-inclusive resorts in Fiji are not necessarily the same as what you think of when it comes to all-inclusive resorts in the Caribbean or in Mexico. In Fiji, all-inclusive resorts can be on the big islands or on the small islands, and the main thing that you will have to decide, as far as this goes, is whether you want to pay one lump sum or pick and choose what you’ll spend money on as you go. 



Stay or go: You will also have to decide whether you want to stay put for most of your time in Fiji, or whether you want to bounce from lodging to lodging, staying in a number of different places.
Of course, among all these choices, and no matter what you decide, you will still be enjoying a vacation in Fiji, which means you will have plenty to enjoy, and very little to complain about!

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Planning A Honeymoon In Florida

If you are planning a honeymoon very soon but you don’t have the time or the money to leave the country, don’t be disappointed! Actually, there are plenty of places in the US that are great for honeymoons; these are places that people from other parts of the world travel to all the time! Of course, many of these premium American honeymoon locations can be found in the beautiful state of Florida. For anyone looking for a honeymoon vacation complete with sun, sand, and ocean, Florida is a great place to look, with plenty to offer and a great range of prices. 

One great honeymoon destination many forget about until they hear others raving about how much fun it was is Orlando. Of course in Orlando you will find Disney World, plus you will also find a great night life and lots of excellent prestine beaches. Although the crowds of Orlando might exclude it from some people’s lists, it is a great honeymoon destination for anyone who wants a packed week with lots to do. 

Check out Sarasota if your idea of a perfect honeymoon is something more lay back than Orlando; in Sarasota, you will find great beaches, beautiful art, and lots of pleasant activities. The quiet resorts of Sarasota can provide you with an escape from the hustle and bustle, but you will also have the benefit of being close to a city. Sarasota provides the perfect blend of “quiet” and “things to do” for any couple who wants a little bit of both. 

And if you are looking for the extreme when it comes to “quiet beaches” and “being away from it all,” look no further than Saint George Island. There is no shortage of serenity on Saint George Island, with its huge population of sea turtles and dolphins, and with its endless, quiet, beautiful beaches. Saint George Island is also extremely affordable for the beauty and the serenity it provides, as most homes on the island rent for between $1000 and $2000 per week. 

For anyone who has to take a honeymoon within the country or for anyone who simply wants to take a honeymoon in the States, Florida is one of the best places to look – a state that truly offers every different type of beach vacation you could wish for!

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Speed Dating--The Fastest Way To Fall In Love


Do you believe there is an amazing partner out there for you? Or do you believe that you've already met your prefect prince charming and all you've got to do is navigate the choppy waters of that all important first date to get the show on the road? I live in the centre of the universe but the rules of the dating game are the same wherever you live, and if you follow my tips and advice, then it's a game that you're going to win.


1) Be confident (and if you don't feel confident - act it!) - Women love confidence in a man, they find this incredibly sexy.
2) Take the initiative and revel in your masculine energy; ladies love to relax on dates knowing that you have organized all the details. It's up to you to decide where to go, book a table etc.
3) Ask her questions about herself that allow her to open up; listen intently and make sure you nod, um and aaahh in all the right places.
4) If you really like the girl, take her flowers on the first date (the bigger the bunch the more points you score!) Women love romance so if you can romance a lady, then you're on her good books already.
5) Be attentive to her needs, make sure she is comfortable, that she has a drink etc; women notice small details like that.
6) Look at her as much as you can (no ogling though!); women love attention and they like to feel like they are being admired.
7) If you can afford it, pay for her on the first date. You don't have to go anywhere expensive - a local gastro-pub will do. But don't come across a bit of a meanie as first impressions last.
8) Take her somewhere on a first date that encourages conversation - perhaps for delightful meal and a nice glass of wine - but in a cozy restaurant that isn't too noisy. Remember, if you go somewhere like the cinema or a football match, then you won’t be able to chat and get to know each other.
9) Women always look at shoes, be sure yours reflect the right image!
10) A great smell can make a lasting impression. I have often heard women talk about a guy's after-shave so make sure you stock up on the CK1!


1) Wait for a guy to ask you out - this may sound old fashioned but men love the chase, allow yourself to be pursued and enjoy it. However, drop hints to encourage him.
2) Allow him to book a table, open doors, pay you compliments, pay for the meal etc; give him control of the first date! Let him feel appreciated!
3) Be happy and be the type of person that men want to be with; radiate good energy, smile and your date will be all the more entranced. Just have fun and lots of it.
4) Approach the date with the aim of having fun; forget about whether he is Mr. Right and focus on just enjoying yourself and having a good time.
5) Compliment a man, the things he is doing for you, the choice of meal etc - men love this.
6) Take an interest in HIS interests. Don't just talk about yourself and what you like to do. Draw him into conversation and to share more of himself.
7) Don't mention your 'ex'! There'll come a time in any relationship when both of you will talk about your past relationships. Unless the guy specifically brings up the subject, a first date really isn't the time. This is the Golden Rule.
8) Turn your mobile phone off. If you're taking calls from your friends or reading texts, your date will soon lose interest. Only keep your phone switched on if you're expecting a VERY important call.
9) If the guy has invited you out for a meal, be careful how much you spend on his credit card. You don't necessarily have to choose the cheapest items on the menu, but don't order lobster and Champagne either. If a man invites you out for dinner on a first date, don't use it as an excuse to indulge yourself in a way that you wouldn't do if you were paying for yourself.
10) Say thank you - in fact you should say it twice; at the end of the date as you're saying goodnight and then either in a follow-up 'phone call or by text message the next day. Even if you don't want to see him again (in which case, thank him by text!), you don't want to give him the impression that you have no manners.



How To Seduce A Shy Man

Well the answer is easily derived. Shy men are usually thankful to have you approach them. They may be in absolute love or lust with you but feel like it will never happen because they cannot stir up the nerve to approach you.

Just like we sometimes think guys are out of our league, men sometimes feel the same way about us. They are afraid of being ridiculed and rejected. A shy guy may have great fear in approaching a woman.
By approaching him, you take that pressure away. Do it slowly. Strike up a conversation the first time. Invite him for coffee the next, etc.

Try to get him to laugh at a joke. Humor is a great way to break the ice and put him at ease.
Also give him body language signs that you are interested.

I will break this down in to three parts:

1) How to Flirt – You can do more flirting with your eyes than with any other technique. Look at him then look away then look back again. Or stare him right in the eyes and hold his gaze then smile real slow.
Use the quick lip lick. The hair toss. The hair curl around the finger technique.
Try this eyebrow raise. Do a double to really get his attention.
We are all born with the ability to flirt. Look at any two year old and you can see it. We start flirting young then end up feeling guilty out of doing it or warned against doing it because of office politics. You know how. You are simply out of practice. So that is your fun assignment for the day – practice, practice, practice.

2) When to flirt – Flirt when you are truly interested, flirt when you want the other person to feel good, flirt when you are feeling good yourself. There is no hard and fast rule about flirting.

3) When not to flirt – Never take your level of flirting farther than you want to go. Do not flirt with someone you know really likes you if you do not share those feelings. Do not flirt with someone whose job might be at stake if taken the wrong way. Do not flirt with your best friend’s boyfriend.
Walk into the situation knowing that you are gorgeous, attractive, fun loving and intelligent. You may end up being the one to ask him out.

A secure and confident woman always looks more attractive and eye-catching. Do whatever it takes to achieve that confident good looking outlook that would be a magnet to men.

1) Take the time to fix yourself up before leaving home.
2) Put on a scent that makes you feel sexy.
3) Dress in a way that makes you feel desirable without exposing too much.
4) Plan topics of conversation ahead of time, if you like.
5) Take beauty classes or etiquette classes if you feel that will help.
6) Develop one area of yourself that you excel at and you will have a topic of conversation that you can talk passionately about. That passion will come through in the flush of your cheeks and the sparkle in your eyes.

Once he understands that you really like him, Mr. Shy guy may be ready to direct a few interesting suggestions in your direction.